Everyday single day there are relationships ending, whether they are between husbands and wives or girlfriends and boyfriends, and although going through a break up is something that everyone will go through at some time in their life, they probably wouldn’t need to as much as they currently do. Relationships are all about communication, and once that communication stops, so does the relationship in a sense. Without communication with one another you are just strangers in a relationship with one another, so maybe it’s not you or your ex who has a problem- maybe it’s your communication. Do you want to know how to win someone back? Learn how to get your back easily by reading below.
When relationships first starts there is usually plenty of communication. When most people first meet they will talk about themselves to one another and as they get to know each other will fall in love over time, but as the relationship continues -in most cases- the communication slows or even stops in its tracks.
Some reasons for the lack of communication could be because of resentment or anger, and the list goes on and on, but the thing is, if you don’t nip this thing in the bud it will just grow until your relationship suffers.
It can be hard to go from barely communicating to sharing everything with each other once again, but over time it can really blossom into a beautiful relationship. Here are some of the things that the two of you should do your best about communicating with one another:
Talking About Your Feelings
Guys relax, we aren’t talking about feelings like how you feel about that slice of ham you had for lunch, or how those pretty flowers make you feel- we’re talking about how you feel when the other person in the relationship does something that you may not agree with. This can be a key reason to why many relationships fail, and that’s because rather than discussing with one another about how something made us feel- we keep it to ourselves, and let it build up inside us. Then when the person does something else that hurts us or that we don’t like, it adds to all of the other things. Instead you should be “emptying” these feelings whether they be of anger, hurt, or frustration, by telling your boyfriend or girlfriend about them. If they forgot your birthday, instead of resenting them for it let them know how it made you feel. If she doesn’t let you go out with your friends then explain to her why it’s important to you to be able to do so, instead of harbouring bad feelings towards her. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
Talk About Your Day With Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend
One of the reasons that it can get the point where you feel that you are in a relationship with a stranger is that you don’t talk about your daily lives anymore. Remember when you used to share stories about work or about your friends with your boyfriend or girlfriend? Doing this makes you feel as though you are a part of their lives, and knowing all about their day at work, etc, helps to make conversation, which helps you to communicate in many ways.